Somehow I have the feeling a sensored 2pole LMT3080/6 875KV (~1000KV) would play nicely with the VESC. Much better than the TP motors ...
(2pole and sensored both would unload the compute requirements quite a bit ... and the LMT3080s with 30kW peak will do easily 15kW work far from saturation )
The MGM controller is more expensive yes, but then: it is a proven combo with LMT motors (and their weird 6 connector phases).
Sooo ... as much as I like the VESC so far ... it will probably shine with a different motor.
And that different motor will shine "safely" with the other controller ... shux ...
edit: The more I read about hot 6pole D wind TP motors the more it becomes clear: TP motors on high voltage (>12s) are GENERALLY hard to control ... peak currents shoot up due to D wind side effects, 6poles are hard on compute/control without sensors. They challenge even the MGM controllers, which have sophisticated protection mechanisms in place (not frying them necessarily, but they get "limited"). And when they work with MGM controllers they need some exotic settings like borderline advanced timings and accelaration torque limits ...
So ... step one for me : sell my (unused) TP power motor 1000KV motor!
@AlexLTDLX I predict you might face some issues with the VESC (even) down the road if you keep winding up that TP motor higher...
With all your frying experiments there was always one invariant: TP Power